Welcoming a son in-law entails more than we are prepared for at times. Aside the lovely reception and the hugs from friends and family members, the most crucial aspect of welcoming him into your family should not be missed out. These include the recognition and acceptance of your daughter now being  under his authority as well as him being a central part of your daughter’s life. The best way we can make him feel welcomed is to allow him and his wife now enjoy their life together with no undue interference. You need to accept that you will now begin to see less of your daughter as she now has her own family. It also means you will no longer be the first one she turns to for guidance and advice. Remember the Bible says “the two shall become one”. Genesis 2:24

For your son in-law to feel welcomed and accepted into your family he needs to experience a full control over his marriage. He needs your love no doubt, best shared with no hidden agendas.

One of the qualities that your son in-law would like to see in you is your adaptability to your new role as his in-law. Your son in- law also needs to allow himself to blend into your family gradually and be patient with you while you adjust to the change in the family.

Welcoming a son in-law into your family is not just a   one –off .It has to be continuous. Be ready to receive him and appreciate him just like you would for your own child.

God bless you.