In order for the relationship to flourish between you and your in-laws there is a need to understand their language. Language in this context does not necessarily refer to the spoken language.
Appropriate interpretation of their way of communication is important. Failure to do this leads to the wrong idea received which now acts as a foundation for further avoidable problems not only with your in-laws but in your marriage.
Most often we hear about crisis between daughter in-laws and mother in-laws. A chat with both of them will clearly show they both had good intentions towards each other. So where did it go wrong? A deep search will show it was all in the wrong perception of moves or even words. It’s time we sit back and study our in-laws before we take any regrettable action
“No one knows caution as regrets.” – African Proverb
God bless you